The Dom/sub app that turns your rules into daily habits
Collared is a private BDSM habit tracker for Doms and subs. Track your dynamic's rules, habits, rewards, and punishments all in one app.



Use this app to structure your dynamic
Collared gives you a place for your agreements to live.
A simple system for Doms and subs
The Dom sets the rules
Create habits and tasks, each with instructions and a schedule.
The sub follows them
They open the app, see what's due today, and mark it done.
Rewards and punishments follow
Kept habits earn points toward rewards. Missed ones get the punishment you agreed on.
BDSM Habit Tracker: help your sub build good habits

BDSM Habit Tracker: help your sub build good habits
Morning check-ins. Hydration. Journaling before bed. A weekly reflection. That thing you want done to you this Saturday.
Set recurring habits for anything you want done regularly, or one-time tasks for things that only need doing once. Schedule them for every day, certain days, or a few times a week.
Good behavior deserves to be rewarded

Good behavior deserves to be rewarded
Consistency deserves to be noticed. Maybe that's praise. Maybe it's a privilege, a night out, or something only the two of you would understand.
Rewards in Collared are whatever the Dom decides they are, and subs earn points toward them by keeping their habits.
Missed rules have punishments

Missed rules have punishments
Extended kneeling. A week of chastity. No phone after 9.
Punishments in Collared help keep the submissive accountable and are whatever the two of you have agreed on. Attach one to a habit so a miss has a consequence, or let the Dom assign one whenever they see fit.
Write and share ideas

Write and share ideas
A ritual you read about. A toy you're curious about. A fantasy you're not ready to say out loud yet. Save it in Ideas and share it with your partner when you're ready to start a conversation.
Ideas in Collared are shared documents. You can write them together or separately. An idea might start as two lines from the sub, pick up a few more from the Dom that night, and turn into next weekend's scene. Half the fun is opening one and finding your partner has added to it.
Track your submissive's progress
Daily reports, completion rates, streaks, and what was missed — week by week, day by day, for every habit and task.



With a partner or on your own

With a partner or on your own
Collared is a BDSM app for couples in a D/s dynamic, and for Doms or subs building structure on their own. Whether your dynamic is established, still developing, or solo, Collared gives you one place to manage it. It's not a dating app.
With a partner, each of you uses your own phone. When the Dom adds a habit, a reward, a punishment, or a shared idea, it appears on the sub's screen. When the sub checks something off, the Dom sees it happen. And when there's something to say about any of it, a private chat is available right inside the app. Same city or long distance, the dynamic travels with you.
On your own, use Collared to build the discipline and rituals you want to live by. Connect a partner whenever you're ready.
Everything, in one private place
- Recurring habits and one-time tasks
- Full calendar of past and upcoming tasks
- Flexible schedules and reminders
- Points and personalized rewards
- Agreed punishments and consequences
- Photo proof and per-habit photo galleries
- Habit notes and completion history
- Private and shared ideas
- Partner chat
- Progress, streaks, and stats
- Passcode lock and Discreet Mode
- Time zone support for long-distance couples
- Solo or partnered use
- iOS and Android support
Frequently asked questions
Getting started
What is Collared?
Collared is a private BDSM habit tracker and Dom/sub app. It brings habits, tasks, rewards, punishments, points, ideas, partner chat, and progress tracking into one shared place. Each partner uses it from their own phone.
What is a BDSM habit tracker?
A BDSM habit tracker helps partners turn agreed rules, rituals, and tasks into repeatable actions. The Dominant can set expectations, the submissive can track completion, and both partners can see progress and respond consistently.
Is Collared a dating app?
No. Collared helps partners manage an existing or developing D/s dynamic. It is not designed to help people find partners.
Is Collared only for strict or 24/7 dynamics?
No. You decide how much structure belongs in your relationship. Collared can support anything from one or two simple rituals to a more detailed ongoing dynamic.
What roles does Collared support?
Every partnership in Collared has one Dominant and one submissive. Roles are set per partnership, so you can be the Dom with one partner and the sub with another. Your profile also has a Preferred role setting with Dominant, Submissive, and Switch options.
How do I connect with my partner?
One partner opens Partners in Settings, taps Add partner, and chooses their partner's role. Collared generates a 7-digit invitation code to share. The other partner creates an account and enters the code, and the two accounts are linked. Codes are single use and expire after 8 hours.
Can I use Collared without a partner?
Yes. Every account includes a personal profile where you can create and track habits, rewards, and punishments on your own. You can connect with a partner at any time, and your personal profile stays private to you.
Can I connect with more than one partner?
Yes. Each partnership is separate, with its own habits, rewards, punishments, points, and ideas. Your partners cannot see each other or anything you share with another partner. You switch between partnerships with the partner selector at the top of the screen. Connecting with partners does not require a subscription and it is free to connect with as many partners as you want.
Is Collared available on iOS and Android?
Yes. Collared is a mobile app for iPhone and Android. You can sign in with email and password, with Apple on iOS, or with Google on Android.
Habits and tasks
What is the difference between a recurring habit and a one-time task?
They are created the same way in Collared. A habit set to Daily, Weekly, or Monthly repeats on its schedule. A habit set to Once appears on one day only and does not repeat.
What schedules do habits support?
Habits can be Daily (every day or selected weekdays), Weekly, Monthly, or Once. Each habit can have a due time and a goal, such as several times per day, week, or month. Weekly, Monthly, and Once habits can either be locked to their due date or completable any time before it.
Does Collared have a calendar?
Yes. The Habits screen is built around a swipeable calendar that goes about two years into the past and twelve weeks into the future. Every past day is preserved exactly as it happened: what was completed, what was missed, what was paused, rewards and punishments completed, and that day's Daily Report. Future days show what is scheduled, so the Dom can plan days or weeks ahead (for example, a one-time task scheduled for Saturday the 31st) and the sub can open future days and see what is expected of them.
Who can create habits?
By default both partners can create habits. The Dom controls this in Permissions and can restrict creating, editing, deleting, or pausing habits to themselves. Each habit also sets who is allowed to complete it: the submissive, the Dominant, or both.
What happens when a habit is missed?
A habit that is not completed by its due time is marked missed. If the habit has a punishment attached, it is assigned automatically. If the habit is set to deduct points on a miss, the points come off the balance automatically.
How do streaks work?
Each recurring habit has its own streak, counting consecutive completed days, weeks, or months depending on its schedule. A miss resets the streak; paused days do not. Stats also shows an overall current streak, best streak, and all-time completed count.
Can habits be paused?
Yes. A single habit can be paused until a chosen date or until it is unpaused, and Pause All Habits pauses everything at once. Paused habits are skipped without punishment. By default only the Dom can pause, and this can be changed in Permissions.
What are habit notes?
Habit notes are short written entries attached to a habit's completions. A habit can be set to show a note field when it is marked done, and the sub writes the note in the moment. Every note is saved to that habit's Notes page, dated and in order, where both partners can read them.
How do subs and Doms use habit notes?
Habit notes help submissives write down their thoughts when they complete a habit. A note can be a quick comment, a check-in about how a task felt, or a longer journal-style entry. The Dom reads them to follow how the sub is doing day to day. Over time the Notes page becomes a record the couple can look back through to see how they have progressed.
Can Collared be used as a journal?
Yes, with habit notes. Collared does not have a dedicated journaling feature, but a habit with notes turned on asks for a written note each time it is marked done. Create a daily habit such as journaling before bed, and each day's entry is saved to the habit's Notes page, where the Dom can read them.
Does Collared send reminders?
Each habit can send a reminder notification, from 15 minutes to 1 day before it is due. There is also an optional Daily Reminder, a check-in notification at a time you choose. Partners are also notified of activity, such as when the sub completes a habit or when a new urgent task is created by the Dominant.
What are Urgent timed tasks?
Urgent timed tasks are one-time tasks with a countdown timer, created from the Now button. The Dom picks a Task, Photo, or Location request and a deadline of 30 minutes, 1 hour, 2 hours, or 3 hours. The task stays pinned on screen with a live countdown, and rewards and punishments can be attached like any habit. Only one Urgent timed task can be active at a time.
Can I request my partner's location?
Yes, with a Location request task. The sub taps Share Location and their current position is sent once and shown to the Dom on a map. It is a one-time snapshot, not continuous tracking. All users have complete control on whether or not they ever want to share their location, and this is an optional feature. Like all other data on Collared, your location data is never shared with advertisers or sold in any way.
Does Collared work for long-distance D/s couples?
Yes. Collared helps long-distance D/s couples manage their dynamic day to day. Each partner uses Collared from their own phone, and habits, rewards, punishments, points, chat, and progress stay in sync between them. Even when partners are in different time zones, Collared makes scheduling across time zones transparent and easy-to-use.
How does Collared handle different time zones?
Collared does the time zone math for you. A habit is due at the local time of the partner who completes it, and the other partner sees both times at once: due at 5:00 PM in the sub's time zone, which is 3:00 AM for the Dom. No converting, no confusion about whose clock a deadline is on. Each partner sets their own Home Time Zone, and you can update your time zone when traveling to automatically reschedule your habits to the new local time.
Rewards, points, and punishments
How do points work?
Completing a habit earns the points set on that habit. Points can be lost when a habit with a point punishment is missed. The sub spends points on rewards in the Shop, and the Dom can adjust or reset the points balance directly.
How do rewards work?
Rewards are created with a point cost and appear in the Shop. The sub buys a reward with earned points, or the Dom grants it directly. A reward can also be marked non-purchasable, so only the Dom can grant it. Bought and granted rewards sit in the To do tab until they are marked complete.
How are punishments assigned?
There are two ways. The Dom can assign any punishment directly from the Decide tab. A punishment can also be attached to a habit, and it is then assigned automatically when that habit is missed.
How is a punishment completed?
An assigned punishment appears in the To do tab for both partners. Once it has been carried out, it is marked done in the app. Each punishment sets who can mark it complete: the submissive, the Dominant, or both.
Are there reward and punishment templates?
Yes. Rewards come with templates in Indulgence, Experiences, and Power categories. Punishments come with templates in Classics, Restrictions, and Reflection categories. You can also create fully custom rewards and punishments.
What are Praise messages?
Each habit can have Praise messages written on it. When the habit is completed, one of them is shown at random as encouragement.
Photo proof
Can a habit require photo proof?
Yes. A habit can be set to require photo proof. The sub submits one or more photos when completing the habit, and the Dom reviews and approves or rejects them. The habit counts as completed only after approval.
Who can see proof photos?
Only the two partners in the partnership. Photos are stored privately and are never visible to other users.
Are proof photos saved in the app?
That is your choice, set per habit. With Save photo proof on, photos are saved in that habit's photo history. With it off, photos are deleted immediately after the Dominant reviews them and are never stored. Saved photos can also be deleted at any time. You can delete an individual photo or delete them all at once.
Can photos be added to any habit?
Yes. When completing any habit, the sub can attach photos as an optional extra, even when photo proof is not required. Optional photos are not reviewed and go straight into the habit's photo history. Attaching optional photos requires Collared Pro.
Is there a photo history?
Every habit with saved photos has its own photo gallery section in the app. Photos are grouped by day with the most recent first, so both partners can look back through the habit's history over time and monitor the submissive's progress or compliance. Photos can be deleted from the gallery at any time.
Ideas and chat
What are ideas?
Ideas are shared documents that both partners can read and write. An idea supports formatted text, headings, bulleted and numbered lists, to-do lists, and links. You can favorite ideas and search them.
Who can edit an idea?
By default both partners can edit any Idea. The Dom can restrict editing on an individual idea so only they can change it. Partners edit one at a time; while one partner has an Idea open for editing, the other sees it as view-only until they are done.
Does Collared have a partner chat?
Yes. Each partnership has its own private chat. It supports text, photos, replies, and reactions, and messages arrive in real time. Chat history can be permanently deleted from Chat Settings at any time.
Progress and reports
What is the Daily Report?
The Daily Report is a summary of a single day: a compliance percentage, what was completed, what was missed, and any punishments or rewards completed that day. Both partners can open it from the Habits screen, and past days each have their own report. It can also be shared as an image.
What statistics does Collared track?
The Stats screen shows a Weekly Summary, Monthly Summary, and Yearly Summary. Each includes a completion rate, completed and missed counts, current streak, best streak, and all-time completions. Every habit also has its own stats with per-period completion rates and streaks.
Privacy and security
Who can see my content?
Only you and the partner in that partnership. Nothing is shared with other users, and there are no public profiles or feeds. If you have multiple partners, each partnership is fully isolated from the others.
Can I lock the app?
Yes. You can set a 4-digit Passcode that is required whenever the app opens. Passcode is a Collared Pro feature.
What is Discreet Mode?
Discreet Mode replaces the Collared app icon on your home screen with a neutral one. It is a Collared Pro feature.
Can I delete my account?
Yes, from Settings inside the app. Deletion is permanent and removes your account and data, including habits, rewards, punishments, photos, and notes. An active Pro subscription must be cancelled separately through the App Store or Google Play.
What happens if I remove a partner?
Either partner can remove the other from Settings, and removal cannot be undone. The shared habits, rewards, punishments, and points move to the submissive's personal profile. The Dom loses access to that shared content.
Is there an age requirement?
Yes. Collared is for adults, 18 or older, in consensual relationships.
Subscription and billing
Is Collared free?
Collared is free to download and use. The free plan includes up to 5 habits and 5 ideas per partnership, rewards, punishments, points, partner chat, the Daily Report, and Stats. Some features require Collared Pro, a paid subscription.
What does Collared Pro include?
Collared Pro unlocks unlimited habits, unlimited ideas, unlimited urgent timed tasks (including photo and location requests), photo proof, optional photo attachments, custom categories, the Passcode lock, and Discreet Mode. It is sold as a monthly or annual subscription through the App Store or Google Play.
How much does Collared Pro cost?
Collared Pro is $6.99 per month or $29.99 per year. The annual plan includes a 7-day free trial. Billing is handled by the App Store or Google Play.
How do I cancel Collared Pro?
Collared subscriptions can be cancelled at any time. Subscriptions are billed by the App Store or Google Play. Go to Settings, then Manage Subscription, to open your store's subscription management, where you can change plans or cancel at any time. Cancelling stops future billing; deleting the app does not cancel a subscription.
