CollaredCollared

The Dom/sub app that turns your rules into daily habits

Collared is a private BDSM habit tracker for Doms and subs. Track your dynamic's rules, habits, rewards, and punishments all in one app.

Download on the App StoreGet it on Google Play
Get it on iOS and Android.
BDSM rewards and points in the Collared appCollared BDSM habit tracker showing a sub's daily habits and tasksPrivate partner chat in the Collared dom/sub app

Use this app to structure your dynamic

Collared gives you a place for your agreements to live.

How it works

A simple system for Doms and subs

The Dom sets the rules

Create habits and tasks, each with instructions and a schedule.

The sub follows them

They open the app, see what's due today, and mark it done.

Rewards and punishments follow

Kept habits earn points toward rewards. Missed ones get the punishment you agreed on.

Habits and tasks

BDSM Habit Tracker: help your sub build good habits

Dom/sub habits and tasks in the Collared app

Morning check-ins. Hydration. Journaling before bed. A weekly reflection. That thing you want done to you this Saturday.

Set recurring habits for anything you want done regularly, or one-time tasks for things that only need doing once. Schedule them for every day, certain days, or a few times a week.

Rewards

Good behavior deserves to be rewarded

BDSM rewards and points in the Collared app

Consistency deserves to be noticed. Maybe that's praise. Maybe it's a privilege, a night out, or something only the two of you would understand.

Rewards in Collared are whatever the Dom decides they are, and subs earn points toward them by keeping their habits.

Punishments

Missed rules have punishments

Agreed punishments and consequences in the Collared app

Extended kneeling. A week of chastity. No phone after 9.

Punishments in Collared help keep the submissive accountable and are whatever the two of you have agreed on. Attach one to a habit so a miss has a consequence, or let the Dom assign one whenever they see fit.

Ideas

Write and share ideas

Private and shared kink ideas in the Collared app

A ritual you read about. A toy you're curious about. A fantasy you're not ready to say out loud yet. Save it in Ideas and share it with your partner when you're ready to start a conversation.

Ideas in Collared are shared documents. You can write them together or separately. An idea might start as two lines from the sub, pick up a few more from the Dom that night, and turn into next weekend's scene. Half the fun is opening one and finding your partner has added to it.

Progress

Track your submissive's progress

Daily reports, completion rates, streaks, and what was missed — week by week, day by day, for every habit and task.

Daily report in the Collared BDSM habit tracker showing a sub's perfect day with 100% compliance
Monthly habit calendar in the Collared dom/sub app showing every day kept or missedCompletion rate for a single habit in the Collared BDSM habit tracker
Partner and solo use

With a partner or on your own

Private partner chat in the Collared dom/sub app

Collared is a BDSM app for couples in a D/s dynamic, and for Doms or subs building structure on their own. Whether your dynamic is established, still developing, or solo, Collared gives you one place to manage it. It's not a dating app.

With a partner, each of you uses your own phone. When the Dom adds a habit, a reward, a punishment, or a shared idea, it appears on the sub's screen. When the sub checks something off, the Dom sees it happen. And when there's something to say about any of it, a private chat is available right inside the app. Same city or long distance, the dynamic travels with you.

On your own, use Collared to build the discipline and rituals you want to live by. Connect a partner whenever you're ready.

Everything, in one private place

  • Recurring habits and one-time tasks
  • Full calendar of past and upcoming tasks
  • Flexible schedules and reminders
  • Points and personalized rewards
  • Agreed punishments and consequences
  • Photo proof and per-habit photo galleries
  • Habit notes and completion history
  • Private and shared ideas
  • Partner chat
  • Progress, streaks, and stats
  • Passcode lock and Discreet Mode
  • Time zone support for long-distance couples
  • Solo or partnered use
  • iOS and Android support

Get started for free

Collared is free to download. Write your first rule in minutes—one morning ritual is enough to start. The rest can come as you grow into it.

Download on the App StoreGet it on Google Play

Frequently asked questions

Getting started

What is Collared?

Collared is a private BDSM habit tracker and Dom/sub app. It brings habits, tasks, rewards, punishments, points, ideas, partner chat, and progress tracking into one shared place. Each partner uses it from their own phone.

What is a BDSM habit tracker?

A BDSM habit tracker helps partners turn agreed rules, rituals, and tasks into repeatable actions. The Dominant can set expectations, the submissive can track completion, and both partners can see progress and respond consistently.

Is Collared a dating app?

No. Collared helps partners manage an existing or developing D/s dynamic. It is not designed to help people find partners.

Is Collared only for strict or 24/7 dynamics?

No. You decide how much structure belongs in your relationship. Collared can support anything from one or two simple rituals to a more detailed ongoing dynamic.

What roles does Collared support?

Every partnership in Collared has one Dominant and one submissive. Roles are set per partnership, so you can be the Dom with one partner and the sub with another. Your profile also has a Preferred role setting with Dominant, Submissive, and Switch options.

How do I connect with my partner?

One partner opens Partners in Settings, taps Add partner, and chooses their partner's role. Collared generates a 7-digit invitation code to share. The other partner creates an account and enters the code, and the two accounts are linked. Codes are single use and expire after 8 hours.

Can I use Collared without a partner?

Yes. Every account includes a personal profile where you can create and track habits, rewards, and punishments on your own. You can connect with a partner at any time, and your personal profile stays private to you.

Can I connect with more than one partner?

Yes. Each partnership is separate, with its own habits, rewards, punishments, points, and ideas. Your partners cannot see each other or anything you share with another partner. You switch between partnerships with the partner selector at the top of the screen. Connecting with partners does not require a subscription and it is free to connect with as many partners as you want.

Is Collared available on iOS and Android?

Yes. Collared is a mobile app for iPhone and Android. You can sign in with email and password, with Apple on iOS, or with Google on Android.

Make your dynamic part of every day

Write the rules down. Watch them get kept. Handle it together when they're not. It starts with one habit.

Download on the App StoreGet it on Google Play

Collared is for adults (18+) in consensual relationships.